10 things you can’t learn in school

School is great for learning basic math, events of historical importance, and what your favorite Little Debbie snack is. As crucial as those things are, some of the most important lessons come from living. Here are a few things you can’t learn in school.

You need to forgive

Whether it be forgiving someone who hurt you or forgiving yourself, you need to stop holding on to that grudge. We all make mistakes and it’s time to move on and move forward. A grudge is part of you that can’t be happy. Let it go.

Never give up

Sometimes life can get you down and make you stop trying. Refuse to lose and you will be happy with your results. If you need inspiration in this area, listen to the late, great, Coach Jim Valvano at the 1993 ESPY Awards.

Make yourself happy

Happiness is up to you. You’re the only one knows exactly what it is that makes you happy. If you don’t know what that is, take some time for yourself and figure it out. Make sure your relationships enrich your life, but don’t depend on them for your happiness.

#FAIL

Failure happens. It can be a setback, but it’s not a reason to give up. Sometimes there are roadblocks, but it doesn’t mean you’re heading down the wrong path. The say you learn a lot more from failures than you do from successes. Don’t be afraid to find out for yourself.

You worry too much

We’ve all been guilty of this at one time or another. Worry is only damaging. It messes with your head, makes you anxious, and causes frustration. Instead of worrying, look for a solution. If there is nothing that can be done, get it out of your mind and be confident with the fact that it’s out of your hands.

Money doesn’t fix everything

It’s nice to have money. Money can be a great security and provide you with many “things”, but it can’t truly buy you happiness. If you think material possessions will make everything better, you’ll be sorely disappointed when you realize they’ll only bring you fleeting joy. Remember that people and relationships are more important than anything you can purchase.

You can’t always get what you want

I’m sure Mick Jagger has been telling you this for years, and for good reason. We all have plans and dreams, and sometimes we achieve those things, and sometimes life has other ideas. Life can be a lot like an experiment. You may have to try a lot different things to find something that works.

Its not always about you

A lot of your attention is on your hectic schedule and the things you have to get done. But if we don’t take a few minutes to look around every once in a while, life will just pass us by. Sometimes we focus on little disappointments when we should be taking a look at the big picture. Often times those little disappointments are just setting us up for success. So next time you “sweat the small stuff,” remember the big picture and enjoy the ride.

Don’t take anything for granted

Appreciate the people and experiences in your life. Time moves quickly and before you know it you’re not as young as you used to be. Make sure to tell those important people in your life know just how much they mean to you, while you still have the chance.

Laughter is indeed the best medicine

Nothing will pick you up like laughing. Whenever you’re down, find some reasons to be happy and joke around when those who lift your spirits. Laughter is contagious and it should be something that you’re not afraid to pass on.