8 tips for raising a leader

Lead by example

Your kids are basically stalking you. Everything you do or say, they’re paying attention. Teach them how to act as a human being, show them what it means to serve others, and give them an example of what a good leader looks like.

Communication is key

One of the biggest problems in the workplace is a lack of good communication. By teaching your kids how to effectively communicate from a young age, you’re setting them up for success down the road. Make it so your kids are comfortable enough to talk to you about whatever it is that is bothering them, while setting the example of what it looks like to be a good listener.

Keep getting back up

Everyone makes mistakes and that’s okay. Teach your kids that mistakes happen and they’re a great way to learn valuable lessons. It’s also a great time to teach children about getting back up after you fall down. Instill persistence in your children and teach them the importance of persevering.

Ask for help when you need it

You can’t always find success if you’re completely on your own. Even the most talented pro athletes have top notch trainers, coaches, and teammates. Teach children about the importance of teamwork, and how help from others can propel them to success.

Think outside the box

The answer to every problem isn’t always right in front of your eyes. Coming up with new ways to solve a problem is vital in leadership. When your kids are facing issues they find tough, give them opportunities to come up with interesting ways to solve them.

Empower them

Your kids will always be your kids but as they age, teach them to be prepared for different situations and let them learn how to do things for themselves. Trust them, give them responsibilities and rewards them for their success.

Teach them to negotiate

Don’t give your kids everything they ask for. This will not benefit anyone. The next time your child requests something, give them a conditional ‘yes’ with the promise that they’ll do something in return. They can then make a decision on whether or not their request is worth the price. This will teach your kids decision making skills and show them that they’ll rarely get something for nothing.

Show them what work looks like

If you want your child to be a good leader, they’ll need to know the value of hard work. Encourage any kind of activity that will teach your child what that looks like, even a lemonade or Ice T stand.