Social media: A guide for parents
In the digital age of today, it seems everyone is on some form of social media. From Instagram and Facebook, to LinkedIn and Twitter, social networking sites connect us not only with people across town or across the country, but on the other side of the world.
When you’re a parent, it’s natural to want to post those cute family photos on social media. From the time a mother is expecting and on every milestone in between, parents are understandably excited to share their joy with friends and family. Because parents use social media so often, inevitably as their children age and are able to understand their surroundings, they will want to hop online as well. Therefore, it’s important to keep standards in the home not only for parents, but also for their children who learn from their mom and dad’s example. Here are some tips to consider before your next Facebook update.
Remember safety first- Think twice before sharing too much personal information online. If you are posting a photo of your child in a school setting, make sure to check with school administrators before providing their exact location, especially when it comes to younger children. Additionally, some schools frown upon including other small children in the pictures you post online. If you don’t have explicit permission from administrators or other parents, it may be better to only include your own child in the photo you choose to post. When you are cautious with your online activity, your child will know what’s appropriate and safe when they have their own social media accounts.
Enjoy the moment- Whether it’s your child’s first step or their high school graduation, it makes sense to want to capture the moment and share it with loved ones. Don’t forget, though, to actually live in the moment. Don’t get caught behind your phone because you may regret it later. Get the photos or videos you need for memory but then put your device down. Remember it’s not about the amount of “Likes” you get, but it’s about enjoying that memorable life experience. When your children see you relishing what is happening in front of them, it will set an example and show them the importance of unplugging from time to time.
Get the okay- When your child is older and becomes more interested in the photos you are posting of them online, give them the right to share their feelings on what it is you are sharing. If they do not like what you are about to post or if it is embarrassing for them, then take it down. You never want to make your children uncomfortable or self-conscious. They should feel proud of themselves and what you are sharing even if it is just with loved ones. This will teach them to respect others as well and think twice before sharing something that may embarrass someone else.
