Even at moments of success, growth can feel surprisingly uncomfortable. In this reflective piece, executive coach Laurie Maddalena shares a candid look at what happened after the launch of her new book, The Elevated Leader, when the excitement faded and self-doubt crept in. She explores “The Dip,” the emotional comedown that often follows periods of high visibility or achievement, and explains why leaders frequently question themselves right when they’re stepping into something bigger. Drawing on concepts like Gay Hendricks’ “upper limit,” Laurie reframes doubt not as a sign of failure, but as a natural response to expansion.
The article offers reassurance and practical insight for leaders who find themselves second-guessing after a promotion, a bold decision, or a moment in the spotlight. Laurie introduces the idea of the Inner Critic versus the Inner Coach, and shares simple, powerful ways to shift internal dialogue from fear to confidence, including tapping into the wisdom of your future self.
