4 signs your boss doesn’t like you

Your job security isn’t necessarily in question just because someone at work doesn’t like you. But, it can absolutely make your work life a lot more difficult, especially when that someone is your boss. Here are 4 warning signs your boss doesn’t care for you.

They avoid you

If your boss doesn’t like you, chances are they will avoid you at all costs. Whether that means they have someone deliver messages to you or they only communicate with you via email or by phone, if they are not meeting with you face to face it could be a telltale sign.

They talk down to you

Have you ever felt like no matter what you say, your boss belittles your ideas? Being constantly talked down to is a sign your boss just doesn’t like you. This behavior will really stand out when others agree with you or are complimentary, and your supervisor continues to demean you.

They exclude you

If others are called to give their opinions or share ideas and you never are, it could be because your boss has no interest in your feedback. That may be because your expertise does not pertain to what is being discussed, or it could be because your boss’ feelings for you prevent them from selecting you for new projects.

They call you out

Ever notice you’re being reprimanded in front of coworkers for actions or behaviors others exhibit as well? It could be your boss is using you to set an example because of their feelings for you. If this occurs, keep your head down and don’t get defensive.

Just because your boss doesn’t like you, it doesn’t mean they are trying to edge you out. Remember, as long as you’re pleasant and professional, you don’t have to be friends with your colleagues or your boss. If you notice your manager doesn’t care for you, use that as a motivator; show them you are a valuable employee and despite their personal feelings for you, let your strong job performance show why you are an asset to the company.