How to be a connector in your community

If we want more referrals, we constantly want to be connected to folks that give us referrals. These connections ultimately lead to be established as a connector.

The primary benefit of being labeled as a connector in your community is that others will approach you to be the intermediary to others.  This is an awesome place to be. It gives you the opportunity to have others come to you, meaning you spend less time reaching out to your contacts, and it also means you have a reason to reach out to others when you are facilitating connections between people.

Here is how you establish yourself as a connector in your community:

  1. Go to networking events frequently – The more you attend events it puts you in front of more people, and it allows you to see others you have previously met at similar events.  Being seen at multiple events is the first step in being viewed as a connector. 
  2. Connect with each person you meet on Linkedin – Using multiple tools, always attempt to connect with these contacts you meet on Linkedin. You can use the Linkedin app at the event and use the find nearby tool to connect right there. You can also use the QR Code in the tool to connect. If you don’t connect at the event, then be sure to send the request right after the event from your computer or your phone.  Ideally, it’s best to send the request within 48 hours of the event and the initial meeting. Furthermore it’s ideal to customize the invite if you send it from the Linkedin website.
  3. Follow Up with a brief message – After you connect, simply follow-up with a brief message about your meeting.  This step helps seed the relationship and getting it moving in the right direction. So many people fail to send a brief message, and as such when you send a message, it helps cut through the noise.
  4. Check in with your contacts at least every 6 months – ideally, if you can send a brief Linkedin message or email checking in at least every 6 months, it keeps the relationship alive. It allows the recipient to know that you are still available to them and that you are active.  This is yet another powerful step because most people don’t do this!
  5. Let others know that you are willing to help them connect with people you know – Often times people won’t ask you to be connected with someone else unless you make it clear to them that you are willing to do so. Communication in business is key at all levels and this is no exception.
  6. Use the term connect often – The term connect is a clear indicator that you are willing to help others in their goals of connecting them to people you know. The word connect is a powerful part of this process and it is clear that you are willing to help!

Using these 6 steps will help you establish strong connections in your community and it will in fact make you a connector allowing you to help more of your contacts build deeper more meaningful connections in the area.  Soon, you’ll be fielding calls and that is a great place to be with relationships!

Matt Ward

Matt Ward

Matt is the founder of Breakthrough Champion... In 2002 Matt began working with business owners through his website agency, inConcert Web Solutions, to improve their bottom line, gain more clients, ... Web: Details